How to Heal After Escaping Domestic Violence!

in #domestic6 years ago

Living with intimate partner violence — sometimes called domestic violence — can take a toll on your mental, emotional, and physical health, even after it comes to an end. For many victims of abuse, living with the aftermath can sometimes be just as painful as the abuse itself, because the individual often has to learn to cope with symptoms of PTSD or how to trust again.

One of the most important things for victims of abuse to remember is that they are not alone. Some individuals don’t have family nearby, or their relationships have suffered as a result of the abuser interfering. For those people, there are counselors, therapists, and group sessions that can help immensely when it comes to talking about what they’ve been through and finding hope.

It’s also important to learn how to cope in healthy ways. After abuse has taken place, it is extremely difficult for many victims to leave the situation. Once you have left your abusive spouse and are safe, the healing must begin. Here are a few of the best ways to learn to put your life back together after living with abuse.

Let Go

Counseling or therapy can help you learn to let go of the guilt or shame you may be feeling regarding the abuse. Many victims feel the violence was their fault and suffer from extremely low self-esteem; they don’t believe they can really be OK in the world because they don’t feel strong. Remember that you were strong enough to survive and that your life is important.

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