Wow, @zizymena you keep presenting interesting topics in an interesting manner here, kudos and keep it going.....
To anonymous 1
Since he is tired of being single, let him get married na......lol
I think he may be looking for a non existing 'perfect woman' while there are lots on imperfections in him.
Anonymous 2
In as much as she is trying to do this out of love, she cannot choose for you who to marry.
She can offer advice as she has done already, you are not bound to follow her instruction because IT IS YOUR MARRIAGE