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man thanks for that but at least read what i've written :D

Those are automated responses by people. They respond to every single post with the introduceyourself tag lol...

oh i see...i am so sorry i couldn't respond to your msg on chat...i guess i'll have to forget about steemchat now..there seems to be no solution

Have you tried discord? It seems to be the next possible solution after steemitchat.com