Self acceptance, haircut and life changing

in #life7 years ago

I've been thinking about self acceptance for months. Last year I had some self esteem problems and I made some changes, like putting nail tips, false lashes and mega hair. All of this need maintenance, and I've turned slave of my choices and beauty (or what I tought was the ideal of beauty).. My partner almost couldnt touch on me and I needed to live in the beauty saloon.. every month, every time.

I've spend twelve months in this situation, and passed a year I could see that my unhapiness was definitely not caused by my appearance. Actually, this situation just made me more unhappy.

So yesterday I woke up with this feeling... determined to change. I just removed all the fake things.. Had a haircut with a great professional and decided to be happier with myself.

Thats how I went from this

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To this

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And how I discovered that beauty can have a lot of forms, caracteristics and not a unic pattern.

From now on I expect to be free, happier and enjoy my-real-self, with no limitations and no fake nails-lashes-hair-life. Dont need that, dont want that.

To my readers that are passing by the same problem, please love yourself like you really are. We are beautyful.

And remember: we dont need to fit in the world the industry have created.. The industry needs to fit us.

Hope this post helps as many girls with self esteem problems I can reach. Write in here, tell your stories too! And if you dont want to have your identification revealed, you can write to me: [email protected]. I will answer with all my heart!!

See ya!!! :*

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Always beautiful, no matter what <3
You're amazing, May!

love love this! great post and you are beautiful.

Beauty will save the world!