Yeah I don't subscribe to an idea of what is "normal". :)

Do your thing, I'll do mine.
If I hurt someone that is another thing.
If I force someone (even by coercion) that is wrong.

I've seen the flip side where the woman was anti-male... but I support gender equality. If I see people treating each other wrong in either direction I think it is wrong.

Equality is what I believe in. Not special treatment.

I think most issues would go away if other people thought that way. I think a lot of problems for all the (insert)isms are because we have too much "Special treatment" programs for different things. If we want equality we need to treat each other equal. It does take some effort to get people there but special treatment tends to lead to resentment and division.

If you make more than the men, and do a better job then more power to you. :) I also view that largely as between you and your employer and none of my business. :)

Hang in there.