Daily Thoughts: The BIG No When It Comes To Relationships

Daily Thoughts: The Big No When It Comes To Relationships

Whoever you are and whatever you do for living, you have a lot of relationships. People are social creatures. They cannot escape their natural craving for creating more and more relationships, thus surrounding themselves with other people.

But the thing is, handling people is tough. 

We all know that there are certain types of people which we don't like. And there are people who certainly wouldn't like you. It is different for everyone... I might not like people who are too proud and belittle everyone else. However, you might not like people who are judgmental and so forth.

Everyone knows how to establish or maintain a good relationship but that is mostly with people they naturally like.

What if I tell you that you can have a somewhat nice relationship with ALMOST anyone ? 

Would that be a suprise ?

Is there something that will prevent us from having a relationship with any type of person ?

This is me talking purely from personal experience. We as creatures like when others do not show resistance whether trough actions or words. 

Simply showing pure disagreement (counterattacking) or trying to change someone in certain ways will ultimately lead to unstable relationship. 

What you would want to do is change the ways you resist people's words or actions. Resisting is a natural reaction, it is biologically embedded in us. At the same time it prevents us from having a relationship whith wider variety of people. Simply changing the way you talk back and attack people with words is something that will change the way you are perceived. 

You don't want to be perceived as the ENEMY ! 

Before you go...

Try changing your words around when you don't agree with people. Try to work your way around resisting them directly. Find more subtle ways to express disagreement. The more obvious that you are resisting on anything, the harder the relationships become.

Yet, do not think that resisting is bad. You should always point out when you disagree, otherwise it is not an honest relationship.

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