Relationships are what we should see as 'very important ' because it is pivotal. Almost every thing that is wrong with the society today can be attributed to anomalies in marriage relationships. Basing your relationship on love alone is very risky, we must be objective, critically analytic. If it is not working during courtship, then it definitely won't work out in marriage. Let us stop being care free in relationships, deal with problems that arise decisively and take a walk if need be. A broken engagement is way much better than a broken marriage. Let acuity and tuition, not emotion, be your guide. Thank you for sharing.