Thanks for your very friendly comment, appreciate the support!! I think I stayed put with the job I was having, just because there was no real urgency for change. That probably goes for a lot of people. For me I made up my mind by asking myself: is this the job I still want to have in two years, or even one. And as the answer was really no, I decided now was the time to take action. I think it is all about making the choices that create the life you want for yourself. And be confident about it - we're all more capable of handling change then we maybe sometimes think. Good luck with your own choices and decisions!!