I do wish my mom and mother in law understood this concept. Our children do not need stuff. Not only that, but they each see our children once or twice a year - a few days. It’s so sad and usually toxic: no value, too much sugar, just to and movies. No experience. But I try to make every effort to get them out, experience art and food and culture and people and nature, try new things. We just donate all the junk family members buy to someone else who wants the ‘stuff’; no use for it at all! They should buy bitcoin and give that to my kids :/