All things are perception. How the way individuals perceive things are based off unique and dynamic surroundings they were surrounded by in youth. The way they INTERPRET these things are then what are the BASE for perception. Caps locked it to emphasize not to appear like I was shouting lol. The perception is based off interpretation and interpretation is SUBJECTIVE to change. This implies that the way one perceives reality from the interpretations they make from what they experienced around them - define the way they are able to see and make order out of chaos. The feelings of being denied, unequal, under valued - are from their own perspective and view that they accept and let society (which is nothing since you and I are it since it is a group) defined for her. One sees a boy, another a girl. Both are human. Yet because they interpret the things they are surrounded by - the girl is seen as under-appreciated since XYZ interpretation that is justified from society. In reality - there is no XYZ to why X (girl) or Y (boy) are one way or another. We are all born in this existence without a say - we are to adapt or we are to die. Like the rest of those before us. There is no equal. There is only balance which allows it to BECOME equal. Unity. I liked your post. Glad I followed you, your perspective is rare to find in ways where what I say can hopefully be understood.