I was married before, I remember one time I took my wife at the time to a tool rental place. We wanted to rent a rototiller so to plant a food garden. The guy behind the counter was jokingly wanting me to switch his wife with mine. Thing was that my wife was jokingly agreeing with that, smiling and laughing. The guy even said that I might even like his wife. That was a sick thought in my mind. I was the only one that wasn't laughing. Our marriage didn't last. She left after awhile and I signed the divorce papers when I found out she was living with someone in another state. Over the years I found out that she married at least three times after she left me. Things of the flesh can never satisfy that strange hunger for more and more. I did fornicate after she left me. It took some years, but I came back to Jesus and the scriptures. I wouldn't mind getting married again, but only in the Lord. In the mean time I'll just stay single. People can be swingers, but they don't know that they are tearing their souls by doing so.