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RE: Enough is enough!

in #blog7 years ago

@matbaker - I really enjoyed reading this. I am having the same debate with myself, and frankly, right now, don't have the time to spend here - in a sense, "nickeling and diming". @jaynie, who happens to be a personal friend, introduced me to @steemit and she has given me some useful pointers. At the get-go she warned me about the politics, trolls and spammers. I was familiar with that from having blogged for a few years on another platform. I wrote about it there, and also shared it here https://steemit.com/steemit/@fionasfavourites/cape-town-s-burning

Now, before I get on to other issues, the reason I started blogging there were two-fold: I needed to find a different (writing) voice other than my professional one and put it out there. The writing (ha!) was on the wall in my day job, for reasons I won't go into, but a decision was precipitated ahead of schedule (you will find that in my first two posts on @steemit https://steemit.com/introduceyourself/@fionasfavourites/6ndjsc-the-journey-to-a-new-chapter) and the blogging platform that I had chosen did not have much by way of income generating opportunities. Similarly, finding work via other virtual platforms was difficult: I could not / cannot compete with the prices that folk from certain other parts of the world are prepared to accept.

So, since that first post, I have dipped in and out of @steemit and about a month or so ago, perhaps not quite, I took the decision that I was going to spend more time here. Like you, I find myself thrashing about. My other blog was just me, and I had found bloggers I loved following (still do), and had built up a fairly decent following – of my eclectic collection of musings – which do include a lot about cats (really), and, of course food, as well as my very amateurish photographs.

With hindsight, it took 2 years to build that following and I took a decision early on not to “do” politics. Mainly because I do not like confrontation although I will get involved in a heated debate: on the premise that the participants can agree to differ which must, in turn, be predicated on mutual respect.

Let me return to some advice that @jaynie gave me: use the hashtags to find topics that interest you and/or that generate the most income and use them as a guideline. I’m not very good at this – yet. Like you, I have put posts out there that have just gone into the ether which is annoying when they’re often the ones I’ve spent most time on. I keep on thinking that I should have a look at those posts that have generated most votes (ha!) and why. Then, I think that perhaps I should carry on blogging, my way, and looking for others I’d be interested in following and engaging with – like you. Often their interests are not the same as mine would appear to be when you read my blog. So…..

I also am not sure, actually, no, I am very sure that I do not understand all the blockchain stuff let alone all the stuff that @sathyasankar talks about. It intimidates me, and I glaze over. I also have a life outside @steemit that demands, no deserves, my attention. So I will learn this stuff over time, and probably the hard way. My own fault.

So, reading your post and writing this comment has helped me with my reflection on the space I’d like to carve here: I don’t really want to be part of the platform’s politics. I live in a small village and have enough politics to deal with in real life, never mind living in a country where our political environment is hugely fluid and dominating for me (which has to do with my “old” day job). So, I think I’m going to play a longer game: writing what I like (to paraphrase Steve Biko), and engaging with bloggers whose contributions “talk” to me, and who wish to either reciprocate by way of a conversation in the comments, or by following me if what I post is of interest to them. If it isn’t, no offence taken.

Carry on blogging, Mat, I am sure that you will build a cohort of followers who “get” you and build your own @steemit community.

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Thanks, Fiona, on many different levels.

I have read both those blogs, and they are very honest and refreshing. So many people are guarded and closed, even on the internet, where we should feel free to be what we are.

This thing about trolls...you know, they are out there. There are people who deliberately go onto a thread to upset and appal, and to get the reaction that these entail, but I have noticed in recent years that the term is thrown around, often at people who are little more than a dissenting voice. The gun nut I referred to accused me of being a troll, and I am nothing of the sort. In fact, @monchhichi23 above is the person that I was talking to when I incurred this man's wrath, and you can see that I did not upset her at all.

The term "troll" is often used in attempt to develop an unfair narrative.

I am going to carry on here, but I am going to post about stuff that I want to talk about, and if others want to join in, then great. If they don't, well, there's not very much I can do about it. I have been trying to post stuff to appeal to a larger audience, but they have generally failed, and left me feeling like a tuppeny whore. I have been trying to be something I am not. More fool me!

I think we may have taken different paths here, but we seem to have ended in the same place - we are what we are, and would rather fail at being that, then fail at trying to fit in.

Oh, all this blockchain stuff is dutch to me. I probably should try and understand it more, but it leaves me cold. I am not here to learn about this. And yes, I want to avoid Steemit politics, but get involved in Politics on Steemit. I have actually jumped in to a conversation about immigration in the UK, and it absolutely has the propensity to go south, and my opponent here has a huge rep score, so I am playing with fire. But, you know, that's who I am and what I do, and after a month here of trying to be something else, I am going to true to myself and deal with whatever consequences come my way. And I am totally happy with that.

Ah, thank you, Matt, for taking the time to read those posts. The opening chapter post was written at a really difficult time. Amazing how time does help the healing. And as for being honest, well, I once had a boyfriend (now 30-odd years ago) who accused me of being too much so. He didn't mean it as a compliment, but I've never forgotten what he thought was a throw-away remark. Well, I have to live with myself. So.

I agree with you about differentiating between trolls, a stirrer and I'd like to introduce a third character - a lurker. This is where I sometimes find myself. I like what I read, might vote and move on. Not always comment.

And yes, how interesting that we all have different journeys and then end up in the same place at some time! Makes the world go round.

So glad to have made an even small contribution to how, and that you, will continue engaging on Steemit.

Looking forward to reading your posts and continuing our conversation!

And, because I will probably be AWOL tomorrow because it's kitchen day ahead of the market

Bon weekend!