Girl: 28 years old, do I still have the right to do what I want to do?
At the age of 28, do you have the right to choose citizenship and courage? Citizenship is given by yourself, and bravery is to be scrutinized.
I believe that nothing is inevitable, including my invitation to the key round of a girl (about 28).
they said:
The girl is not studying
Girls of certain age want to put their partner in the first place
Girls don’t have to struggle so hard
You don’t have much time to choose the age of the embarrassing audience.
The girls are very picky, and when they pick up, they are gone.
.......
It is believed that many boys are under siege by such "they say", and they are subtly imposing on the path that the "what they believe" girl should have.
Everyone has a reference system to think about, so I really like to use my own knowledge to teach others how to do it. Never do it like that. They are “beating” and quickly use knowledge to make you follow their point of view.
It is because the reference system thinks about the use of the rest, there will be more and more close to the similar roads.
Please forget; they are just knowledge, they are not God to fulfill your future.
Love is never the same, love is static, and we have the right to agree to it.
In addition to the use of reference system thinking, we also postpone the nausea and delay, for example:
When you were 20 years old, you looked at the college students, you believe that you missed the starting time period;
At the age of 28, you think back to yourself at the age of 20, and if you insist on your wishes at the time, it’s very bad now;
When you are 35 years old, why don't you think about it when you are 26 years old? The things that start your wishes can be slower and later.
If you have to get rid of the later the adventure, the higher the cost, so we are entangled in your age is not suitable for doing what you want to do.
And it is not for you to dare to dare to break through the "they say" and then some kind of logical way to move towards their perfect path.
Not all relentlessness can be paid, and the happiness of one thing is still not a fateful invitation, or depending on you.
Being sensible and doing research can help you make choices more and more. Here is an example:
A's situation:
Associate editor, annual salary of more than 4,000, internship slow 3 years for 2 internships;
The internship is clever but worrying, and you will have to take your own test. The safety plan (not pointed out here) will be able to get a diploma in October 2019. Through a lot of spare time, many social activities will be missed, and hobbies will be usurped. To form the status of the house, the purpose of the self-test is to find an internship subject to the diploma;
Survival status: 28-year-old unmarried, unclear for this internship, desperate, no savings, feeling the muscles will be lost, due to the pain of sitting in the spine for many years, learning loans are also in the middle...
The adventure of A:
I quit my internship and spent more than 10,000 to study my favorite ballet. When I use it, I will use it for 3 weeks. After I finish my studies, I will be indirectly. The rent can be paid off. If you choose this road, you can withdraw from the self-study diploma, and withdraw 5,000 tuition fees. You need a short period of time without salary and money. However, you can make a small amount of money from the media before exiting. Take the internship of the ballet head coach.
Research thinking:
Want you to quit your self-test?
Future internship path?
Study the size of the possibility (time period, heart rate)
4, the brave risk of adventure
5, the ballet authority's reliable inspection
How many uses are there after rotating the adventure?
Inviting marriage plan
8, the long-term nature of adventure internship
If you are also at the age of 28 years old, if you also intend to take an adventure; if you have enough courage; if you are going to regret the problem that should never be done; then you also do a research, the list of disadvantages And the size of the possibility to agree on the importance of the adventure