Totally agree.

Let me tell you a story. Once upon a time an old wanderer and his grandson with a donkey were walking through the desert. As they approached the city, The old man got on a donkey.People seeing it started talking. How could this man allow a small boy to wander the desert without letting him get on a donkey? As they rode to another town they changed roles, This time the child rode on a donkey and the old man wandered on foot l. People seeing that they began to comment on how the child can let the old man walking on foot. After all, he is the youngest he could walk. He must be soulless.
When they went to the last, third town, none of them was on a donkey. People saw this at once commented. They must be stupid! How can one not use a donkey for riding and walk instead?
Moral of this is simple.
No matter what we do and so people judge us anyway, so let's just do our thing.