"Love in the Time of Cholera," You're not good enough to like anyone

in #books11 months ago

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Love in the Time of Cholera is an epic love story that spans nearly half a century. In this work, we witness how Ariza, a young man from a poor family, fell in love with the beautiful girl Fermina from a rich family at first sight, but was forced to separate because of the disparity in their status. However, Ariza did not give up, he chose to self-improvement and growth, after 51 years of long waiting, finally won the heart of Fermina.

Before that, I always thought that the concept of matching families was too traditional and rigid, until I immersed in the world of "Love in the Time of Cholera", I deeply realized the profound significance behind the love of matching families. It is not only about matching material and social status, but also about spiritual resonance and values.

Ariza's story teaches us that if you are not good enough, then no matter how much love you give, you will not be able to support your future life and relationships. Excellent people tend to have more initiative in the relationship, because the personal charm and value they emit are easier to attract the object that matches them. But remember, love is not based solely on excellence and attraction, it requires sincerity, understanding and respect.

As for the ending, many wonder if Fermina is really touched by Ariza's love. In fact, her choice is not just driven by emotion. If Ariza had remained poor and unremarkable, Fermina would never have chosen him. But with the passage of time, Ariza through their own efforts and growth, not only in the economic success, but also in the personality won the respect and love of Fermina.

To sum up, Love in the Time of Cholera tells us with its delicate brushwork that love needs to be equal and equal. Improving yourself and making yourself good is the key to true love. Only in this way can we better cherish and protect that hard-won emotion.

1 If you are not good enough, no amount of love can hold up the future

2The more excellent people are, the easier it is for them to control their feelings

3The best way to get love is to deserve it

At the end, many people will ask: "Was Fermina really touched by Ariza's love?"
The answer is clearly not.
If Ariza was still an ugly, poor, old man, she would never have been with him.
After all, the current life can still let her food and clothing, not to stray.

Ariza's story is so much like ours. Love a person who is not worth it, even if you put all your efforts to pay, or be abandoned.
And when you sink your heart to make yourself excellent, from a grass to a tree, no one can ignore you.

Don't chase a horse, you use the time to chase the horse to plant grass, until the spring blossoms, you can attract a group of horses for you to choose from.