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I would have loved to ask if you are in a relationship but it seems that almost everyone is in a relationship. It's a bit hard to find someone who is not in a relationship. If the person is not in a relationship, it means that he or she is suffering from heartbreak, scared of being in a relationship due to heartbreak, and some other reasons that I can't remember. I guess it's a relationship world😅.
Why do we engage in relationships? I think the major reason is sex. Let me give an example. The first thing a man sees in a lady is her beauty. Her face, shape, sexy dress, and all of that. This can make the man like her and ask her to be his girlfriend. Gradually, he may begin to like her attitude and they begin to get serious. Sharing things, advising each other, being there for each other, and all other things that happen in a relationship.
All other reasons come second. People also engage in relationships because they need a companion. They need someone that they can always talk to. They need someone that they can call 'theirs'. They need someone with whom they can grow together. They need someone who can be there for them even when every other person leaves. That's another reason while another reason comes third.
Do these reasons apply to this generation? I don't think so. I'll talk based on what is currently happening in my country. I've not been to other countries so let me talk about my country. I've seen a lot of young girls in a relationship. Some of them even have the mind to double date. Anyway, it may be cool to them and they may give a relevant reason for their action.
One major reason why girls date in my country is because of money. Yes! We need money but a lot of people have used that as a yardstick to be in a relationship. It's in two ways and I'll explain. Most girls claim to love a man because they are getting some amount of money from him, going out with him and spending his money, collecting expensive gifts from the man, and all other things that money can do to hold the relationship. The funniest thing is that while all of these are going on, the lady does not support with a dime.
Some ladies believe that as long as they let the man sleep with them, he is supposed to take care of them financially. That's like prostitution. Isn't it? That's the major reason you'll see girls in relationships these days and they are proud of these actions.
I feel so much pity for men. Why? Because they are going to get married to these ladies. No matter how much you try to avoid it, you will marry them because the majority of the ladies out there have this attitude. One thing I know about marriage is that the man can't do it alone. If you can't reciprocate your partner's action, your relationship can't be balanced. I learned from my mom that a woman has to support her husband in marriage.
A man can't do it all. He needs a woman by him. That's why God has created us. We're to support the men. Imagine you dating a man because of money and you leave when he's broke, you date another one and still leave when he's broke and you continue your lifestyle that way. That's the lifestyle of a gold digger💯.
We need to change this. I can't sleep with someone that I feel nothing for. I can't let that happen. I can't date someone I don't like and I still can't date someone that can't cater to my responsibilities. As long as he can cater to my responsibility and he's trying hard, I'll support him to make his dreams happy too.
Don't be stingy in a relationship. Always think about your partner!
