TRANQUILITY

Hello steemians friends, in today's post I want to talk a little about how we should get away from the opinion of others, of that dependence that we often have on the face of acceptance or disapproval.

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Many people act by seeing the faces around them, if there is a face of approval they feel good, if we see a face of disapproval I feel fatal.

When this happens then there is something that is not working well, the ego is present lack of self-esteem also because by caring what others say we are demonstrating lack of self-esteem and personal security.

Imagine if it depends on the opinion of others if you care about the opinion of others
then we can say for example that we are like a clay or plasticine that other people mold to their liking.

We must ask ourselves who we are, where is your individuality? Is there an individual? You are someone? And then if you exist: are you independent? You are dependent because you act in an insecure way, if you act in an insecure manner you accept more the opinions of others and you leave the negative to the destructive.

Let's be more like a rock that is solidly affirmed in security, in self-esteem instead of being that clay that everyone molds as they want; the key is amate, see your virtues and affirm in them and of course we see our mistakes or weaknesses so you can transform them.

We must be free from what others think once we become free inside we will be free to be slaves and dependent on the image we present to others. Let us trust what our hearts tell us not to be slaves to external opinions and not be bound by inherited mandates.

The key is to go inside, decide to wake up and become aware that it is up to us to be protagonists of our history.

And all this generates true happiness.