7 Things To Remember When You're Feeling Stuck In Life

in #busy7 years ago (edited)

"I'm lost, I don't know what to do, I'm stucked"

If this is what you're feeling right now, why not take a step back and think about it.
Every day is a new day, it possessed thousands and thousands of possibilities. When you’re feeling stuck in your life, please remember these 7 things.
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1. “Feeling Stuck” is just a feeling, it’s not true

When we’re feeling stuck in our life, it’s just a feeling, it’s not true. But what’s important is how do you plan to react to it.

Your life is your responsibility. Although you can’t change what has already happened, so don’t waste thinking about it. What you need to do is, you need to change your way of looking at things. It is interesting that when you look at things differently, a change is already happened, the chain that is binding you will get unchained one by one.

2. The bad things that have happened aren’t worth keeping around

If you’re upset or worry about the past, then it must be very hard for you to go on your life peacefully today. You gotta learn to let go of those pain and those sadness because you will only begin to heal when you let go of past hurts, try to forgive those who have wronged you and learn to forgive yourself for your mistakes as well. When you started to forgive, you’ll see light squeezing in the darkness in your life.

3. When you’re feeling stuck in life, it means you might need a change

It might be your bad habits? It might be your direction in life?
No matter what it is, when you’re feeling stuck in life, you need a change, let this feeling go away. Well, try to stand aside, view yourself in third person. It is amazing that you’ll see what’s wrong in your life, what’s your weakness, what has caused you to be stuck in your life and what needs to be changed.

4. Things doesn’t get easy but worthwhile

When you decided to make changes to get out of this feeling, it won’t be easy to make these changes. So you gotta have strong resolution and determination, get over it. Do remember this, it takes courages to admit that you need changes. When you get past of it, you will feel that every pain every obstacles you’ve been gone through are worthwhile.

5. Stop giving excuses !

If you really wanted accomplish something, you will find a way and there’s always a way. If you don’t want to do it, there will always be excuses. That is the hard cold truth in this world.
So stop giving excuses and start focusing on what you really want to accomplish. Remember, the only person that can stop you from accomplishing things is yourself, no one else can do it but only you.

6. Don’t worry what people say or what people think about you. Be yourself.

Unless you agree with it, if not what people say or think about you will not affect you. By taking it to your heart, it will only make you live in people’s expectation.
You need to recalibrate your goals, find your own path and most importantly, follow your heart. It usually lead you to what you really want and what you really need.

7. Life is a journey, not a destination

Life can be difficult, hard and harsh, but it’s okay. Try on some challenges, find meaningful lesson in it and most importantly joy in your heart. Remember, you are always stronger, more courageous than what do you think you are.

One of the most important milestones are usually created when you’re feeling stuck in life. So, when you’re feeling stuck in life, do remember it means there is a need for you to push past your limits.
Last but not least, believe in yourself, believe that you can make changes, believe that you have the strength and power to move forward from any obstacles you ever face.

If you’re not feeling stuck, your beloved ones might be. Do share to them and make a difference in this world together !

Regards,
Roy

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sharing is good, life is not always beautiful and also perfect, so we live life must be more sensitive in taking decision or live life. Positive thinking is one way that life is more beautiful and comfortable, true as @royling say, be yourself and do not forget to pray for peace. happy day.

Yes exactly. Just be yourself and enjoy what's coming towards you.

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