If u realise how people forget the dead quickly,you will stop living your life to impress anyone.I lost my father some months ago and one couldn't believe that some of my brothers were just after his properties.He laboured all his life to give us the best of life ,but couldn't believe that some were praying for his death.I remembered my father denying himself most of the good things in life in order to satisfy some of his ungrateful children needs.He was scared of selling some of his properties to make sure that some of his children will have a good future.Some were abroad doing nothing for more than 20years,and when they heard about the death of our father,it was then a good opportunity for them to come back home to reap from where they didn't sow.The lesson here is as simple as this....when you work hard for money,make sure that you enjoy it while it last.The dead are easily forgotten and if the dead could watch from the grave how the properties they acquired is been squandered by those who didn't know how the dead suffered for it,then the living will learn and enjoy their lives while living.