Don't be wrong in choosing, use the heart not the eye when choosing, because the heart will show which is good and which is just pretending to be good

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Do not get the wrong choice of life companion, yes akhi wa ukhti, because getting married is a long journey that must be followed by two hearts that are in line, not just those who are loving.

And not only in line with the world, but how will it be that the final destination of the journey of love will reach heaven, how will the love lead to His blessing.

Therefore, be careful in choosing a companion for life, don't let us choose just because he is physically good, or because his wealth is abundant, especially just because of his position. But choose the one in his heart that has faith in his Rabb.

So, is it really not possible to put the criteria as above? It is legitimate that we choose that, as long as it is religious matters that we must prioritize, so that we are with him not only in the world, but until later in the hereafter.

Do we not want to join hands with someone we love to heaven? If you want, it's wise to choose.

Do not let us choose just because he is beautiful or handsome, because almost perfect physique is useless if there is no faith in him.

Beautiful and handsome for what? If in life together he cannot be invited to work together to seek his pleasure.

That is why it is said to be looking for not just giving an eye, but it must be with conscience. Because the assessment of the eye for a moment sometimes makes us lost.

Why? Because what appears in front of the eyes is sometimes not original, then don't let us be careless and hurry in choosing, so that there will be no regrets when it becomes one in a sacred relationship.

Then what about heart assessment? Well, God willing, if the heart is judging, as long as there is God as a reference to choose, then of course we will be safe for the wrong choice.

So, involve God from beginning to end, because with God we will not choose wrongly, and with God the relationship that is built will be very meaningful until later in His heaven.

So remember, Don't be wrong in choosing, use the heart not the eye when choosing, because the heart will show which is good and which is just pretending to be good.

Choose those who when with heaven God as if getting closer, to join your hands not only in the world alone, but until later in the beautiful garden of heaven.