Howdy, @westillbelieve,

In some ways, you are spot on. Most churches suck, many Christians suck, etc. However, its easy to point fingers, but most of the time the problem is us. We often want to point the finger at others and God, which hardly solves anything...unless being bitter is the solution. Then it solves everything.

You say you read the bible and come away condemned or confused. What are you condemned by? What is confusing?