Theres been a lot of times that I thought things were unfair. And they can be unfair. The best way to solve the problem is to wait some time, maybe 1-2 hours or even a day. Discuss your concerns with the parties involved and clear the air.

Steemit is a very genuine place and its easy for people to get their feelings hurt. I hope everyone involved can find some common ground because Steemit, Steemit.chat and the greater community are a rich place for people to express themselves with freedom. All the best.