称赞和鼓励能让人前进

in #cn7 years ago

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每个人都喜欢别人称赞自己,人就是需要鼓励才会勇敢的向前,心理学家、哲学家威廉·詹姆斯认为:“人类性情中最强烈的渴望就是受到他人的认同。”有时候,简单的一句赞美可以让人产生无穷的潜力,从而创造出非凡的事件。
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记得小时学4年级时候,我代表班上参加了上台了唱歌🎤比赛,要上台的那一刻,我便因为人数的关系开始紧张了,好才在音乐老师最后一刻的鼓励和挺我让我感觉出了有人鼓励的感觉,才顺利通过了那次的演出,一唱完老师便称赞我唱的不错,但是那次却没拿到奖可那次老师给的鼓励却让我继续参赛的动力,参加第3年终于得到了优秀奖。

steemit也一样有时可以看到一些新手刚到这里时,没什么人点赞而开始慢慢的懒惰写文章了,而开始没写文章了,我朋友就是其中一个例子。所以我们都要常常点赞来鼓励他们继续写文章。

可见,赞美的语言犹如魔术师的魔棒,可以改变人的命运。赞美有时只是简单的 一句话,却包含着关注与肯定,比苛刻的责备更有效果。

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@legendstick, 我好欣赏你滴~~~ img

@legendstick, 你真是好写手啊!

顺祝狗年大发,赚10000个比特币哟!

认同,一起努力!

鼓励和称赞是我们的好朋友~

继续加油啊~

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