Complaining leaves you with nothing

in #complaining3 years ago

In our life, most of our time and energy are devoted to work. Every job has its value, what kind of job we find in this world, we will live what kind of life.

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Work is the basis for our survival and an important guarantee to accompany us on the road of life. Therefore, for us, all legal jobs are worthy of our respect, and all jobs worthy of our respect have their value that cannot be underestimated.

Nowadays, many people think that the work they are engaged in can only barely make a living, and is of little importance in life and career. It is this attitude that severely limits their value in life and hinders their career development. They are in the work they are engaged in. Although they also regard work as a necessity, they do not realize the true value of work. The hard work day after day and year after year is just to make a living.

They despise their work, perfunctory work, and always focus on how to do a big thing to get rid of their status quo. How can such a person have a big development!

The well-known management consultant Mondy Steyr once said in a column for the Los Angeles Times: “Everyone is given the right to work, and a person’s attitude towards work determines the person’s attitude towards life. Work is the bounden duty of human beings and a spirit that mankind has and admires. When we regard work as a mission, we can learn more knowledge and accumulate more experience, and we can devote ourselves to work. In the process of finding happiness, discovering opportunities, and then achieving success. Of course, having this kind of work attitude may not have an immediate effect, but it is certain that when'contempt for work' becomes a habit, the results can be imagined Knowing. Although the work is becoming mediocre, although it may seem like a loss of some money and time on the surface, it will leave you with irreparable regrets in your life."

Quill is a repairman in an auto repair shop. From the first day he entered the factory, he began to complain endlessly: the job of repairing is too dirty, and people who are not capable of doing this kind of work. It was a shame that I was tired and half dead all day long, and there was no clean place on the whole body.

In this way, Quill spends every day in this feeling of complaining and dissatisfaction. He thinks his job is a very low job, just betraying a little bit of labor for a poor salary day in and day out. Therefore, he slowly began to passively slow down his work. When the colleagues who entered the factory with him stared at the "living" in the hands of the master, he peeped at the master's eyes and actions, and when there was a gap, he was lazy and slippery. Work in hand. A few years have passed, and the three workers who entered the factory with him at that time, relying on their own craftsmanship and work enthusiasm, were either promoted to be his boss, or found another job to have their own business, or were taken by the company. Send to university for further study. Only he, still complaining, is the repairman he himself despises.

Is the result of Quill's behavior an accident? On the contrary, it is a necessity. As an employee, you naively think that your contempt for work will be hidden from your boss. Bosses may not understand the specific performance of each employee and are familiar with the details of each job, but if he can be your boss, he must have his abilities and insights beyond the ordinary, either because of experience, or because he has been effective in a certain area. s hard work. If you despise the work he gives you, he will naturally set your future in the company based on your attitude towards work. This is justified.

People like Quill are not uncommon around us. They disrespect their work, do not regard work as the only way to create life and career and the help of personality development, but as a tool of supply of food, clothing, shelter, and transportation. They think that work is the price of life, and it is helpless and inevitable toil.

Such misconceptions freeze their lives and careers in an eternally passive lifestyle, making them unwilling to rise up and strive to improve their living environment. For them, only decent work is real work, and only by engaging in high-paying work can they get rich.

Don't you know that any great project starts with the accumulation of bricks and tiles, and any dazzling success starts bit by bit. This accumulation of bricks and tiles, bit by bit, requires them to perform their duties with due diligence in their work.

Everyone flocks to good jobs and good jobs, and everyone is afraid to avoid ordinary trivial jobs. But where do good jobs and good positions come from? What kind of work is considered ordinary trivial work?

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If you don’t work hard today, you will work hard tomorrow to find a job. A person who does not despise his work, any trivial and humble thing in his work will become an opportunity for him to grow and exercise himself. A person who respects his work does not need to worry about his future at all.

The ordinary is the job position, the ordinary is the work attitude. No matter how trivial the work you are doing, don't look down on it. You know, all legitimate and legal work is worthy of respect. As long as you work honestly, no one can devalue your value. What you can gain at work depends entirely on your attitude towards work. Whatever one thinks he is, he will move in the direction he thinks.

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Some people think that their jobs are humble and have no prospects, and the reason they go to work every day is just to make ends meet. If we lack enthusiasm for work, or even slow down, work will not make us successful. Similarly, if we think that we have limited abilities and cannot take on important tasks, we just don't act carelessly at work, and never be aggressive. These thoughts are destined that we can only become second-rate employees of the company and live a mediocre life.

Conversely, if you think that you are very important and your work is also very important, you can continue to sum up your experience at work and receive a positive psychological information, which will help and urge us to do everything in our work. Better. A better job means more promotion opportunities, more salaries, more rights and interests, and more room for development. Therefore, to respect one's work is to respect oneself.