losing with honor may be our llusion
Does losing with honor originated from the others? The problem of losing with honor has sometimes arisen for many people to experience a distress. They also have occasionally wasted their precious time to recover a lost confidence obsessed with some of those various things honored in the society in present-day. However, the losing with honor is caused by not judgment in social dimension but in individual one. There are several reasons why possible finding of objects gloried exists in innumberable situations by our will, and social judgment is different according to a situation and criterion of it.
Once, we can always discover some objects regarded as being valuable in oursleves in any situation. From this, this problem can be solved. Here is the successful artist’s story who failed the SAT in the past. His name is Ho-min Ju famous cartoonist in republic of korea by the work ‘with the GOD’. According to his remark, he didn’t study hard, rather but was committed to painting a cartoon in his school days. Accordingly, Perhaps he might be discouraged by the failure of admission in the university. But now, he become the esteemed, rich, and renowned and even resolve his loss of grace though Mr. Ju by finding alternative thing considered as honor in his own. It indicates that the object of honour can be found in everywhere, and therefore it is always possible to get remedies for loss of grace elsewhere.
Next, it is different for social judgment to be made according to situaition and its criterion related to honor. It makes hard for us to follow its opinion associated with grace. For instance, some polls show us a fallacy of consistency due to age, methodology, and sampled groups etc. Look for the rankings of popular jobs in several newspapers compared to find each of them different. Despite indicating general professions ranked in the lists, they all are disparate. It implies that we cannot strictly believe them but are simply plausible for finding it variability.
Consquentially, rewinning with honor seems to depend on mostly ourselves, and even we do not necessarily follow other views. Possible cure exists in any situation, any time. If so, the problem about losing with honor is caused by subjective judgment, not social. The rest is up to only ourselves. Continue to introspect in your mind.