True love is always unconditional, but we bring a lot of conditions. It's not only about the relationship with other people ("I love you if the way you are fits my expectations"), relationship with self is a challenge too. We love ourselves when we are productive, motivated, sucessful but we hate ourselves when we fail, when we are down or confused. In fact, the more we hate this part of ourselves the more tough it becomes and the more influence it has on our lives. The only solution is love, yove yourself no matter what.
Thanks for bringing up the topic!