I also thought about this same thing, being a family member, wife, husband, son, brother, etc., you have all the necessary advice to stand out above others.

And also if you are a good steemians, there are many other communities where you could participate and stand out. Why do it where your own relatives are?

In short, it is something that does not lend itself to confusion, it just lends itself to making the other participants feel displaced and at a disadvantage before the jury, that's all. And therefore this situation is avoided in all the cases that you have mentioned, including any type of contest.