I have realized that I do not have what it takes to be a trader but I do try to buy the dips and sell the highs... (the really big ones)
That alone was a revelation and took away a lot of personal pressure. I do not need to be a trader but some smart investing and buying and selling where there is a clear advantage is just normal I would say.
I try to do the research and find out what is interesting
I guess that makes me a bit of an investor even if its just small amounts

all those self made really rich guys and gals started somewhere as well