Sometimes it takes awhile, I think women who were deceived (played) can tend to hold quite a grudge. I ran across a similar discussion on someone's d poll a couple two, three weeks ago. I didn't vote in the poll but left a comment. From years of having a hair salon it seemed to me there are two basic types of woman in this world, those who husbands die and they say they are glad the bast**ds dead, they tend to have no interest in remarrying. The other can't get over the loss and grief of losing their beloved husband. They may or may not remarry. The rest of them tend to be woman who are just happy to have a man, they don't care who it is as long as they have a man hanging on their arm, they also usually don't give up one man until they have another in place. lol.