Surefire Tips On How To Meet a Girl Online

If meeting a girl at the bar, local coffee shop or restaurant is not for you, you might be staring at your computer wondering what next. Thankfully, you can meet women online where you don’t have to check whether one is single or taken. However, most people often fail when searching girls online because they use the wrong approach.

Hey, it’s Reyhan here and today I’ll outline several key tips on how to find a girl online. Please come with me…

Know the kind of a woman you want
Your search should begin with figuring out the kind of qualities you want in a girlfriend. Some of the most obvious things should include; she should be near your age range, you share interests, has a general level of attraction as you, and more importantly in close location. These are the basic points to look into before pursuing the woman you want.

Make your profile suitable and unique
You have to spend a bigger fraction of your time on your online and social media profiles. This helps you sell yourself as someone else’s ideal match. Most people however, fail to be real. You should try to be true about who you’re and what you do. The fact about dating someone online is that you might meet them later on. Imagine telling your potential girlfriend that you are a rock climber, a sky diver or a muscle hunk only to have her realize that you’re just a couch potato with a few more pounds than what’s needed. Ridiculous, right? Instead, choose a recent photo as opposed to an old one because the old photo may give a wrong picture of your recent status. The picture should be your best.

Read her profile to know her before reaching out
Most women prefer writing their profiles in a complicated manner that it can be hard for men to clearly understand them. You need to learn how to read between the lines. The profile should show an effort to attract your attention. Also, you should differentiate those seeking romance from those seeking friendship. You should not approach those looking for “just a friendship” if you need a relationship. You should know the age to avoid the much younger or much older willing partners.

Connect with her
Once you’ve found a girl that interests you, make your move. Ensure that you take it easy, give her the space to open up and be a good listener. Avoid being too anxious to jump in and show your interest, lifestyle or she might get put off. You should know that she will not give you all her personal details and so should you. The disadvantage of being too much self-disclosure, can make you appear desperate and over-eager. The best thing to do at this stage is to find common topics such as asking her about her hobbies or her favorite places to visit. You shouldn’t share your personal information first before you have known her well. However, after some time, you have to ask for her phone number for advanced interactions.

The connection should take at least two weeks before planning a date. The period gives you time to learn about her and to learn a better idea of her personality. It’s at this time that you should ask her plenty of questions while also avoiding appearing too interrogative. For instance, you may ask her what she likes most and least in a guy. You may also determine whether she is looking for a relationship. You should also establish whether both of you like the communication by checking who does the most communication, whether you feel comfortable talking to her all the things you do, are there warning bells already?

If the communication sounds great, you can proceed with the meeting.

Know how to keep the conversation fun and rolling
How you manage the conversation will determine how fast or slow the connection ends. How do you continue interacting with her?

First, you should let her talk about herself. Most people enjoy talking about themselves because it’s the topic they know well. You should be confident in asking her questions that allow her to talk more about herself. Avoid talking about sex, politics, religion and money especially at such a tender stage.

Show interest in her
Don’t talk too much about yourself, talk more about her. This is where most guys fail in their search for a girlfriend. By showing interest in her, your conversation topic will flow automatically without having to write things like “What story do I give” and so on. This will allow you to learn about the girl and she will definitely appreciate your interest.

Ask her for a first meeting at a social spot
Talking too much on an online platform may get boring; you have to move to the next step- meeting her in person. If she agrees to meet you, choose a safe, public social spot where both of you feel secure and free. The best places are at a coffee shop, local bar, a restaurant just to mention a few. Keep in mind that you’ve been chatting online so you still don’t know each other well. Choosing a neutral spot will ease tension and make the interaction more enjoyable. Avoid offensive topics such as talking about how your last relationship broke down. Treat the girl as if she believes she likes you. Avoid worrying too much whether she likes you or not as this can affect the chemistry between you two.

Handle rejection with grace
If it fails to work, don’t beat yourself or get bitter. Act like a gentleman by giving her a polite send-off and wish her well in life. You could tell her something like “I’m sorry we couldn’t proceed with this, but I wish you the very best in life, let me know if you ever change your mind.” Such a send-off may cause her to turn her circle back later where you can evaluate if you still need her.

Wrap-up

Have you tried finding a girl online? How was your experience? I’d like to hear your thoughts on today’s article. Remember to claim my free gift how to get a girl friend for you here if you’re looking for tips on how to make women want you. Surely, you don’t want to miss this.