Do not ask

Don't ask anything if you're not willing to listen to the person, or debate wisely. What's the point of asking questions if you don't even care to listen.

Not everything is about talking, but also knowing how to listen to who is talking.

If you have the opportunity to speak, speak up
If you have the opportunity to listen, learn to listen...

Sometimes it's not just about talking, and talking, and talking, but knowing how to listen.