yeah when you're at the bottom of the barrel and suffering and someonte gives you that trite little "don't worry it'll get better" and you're like..HOW?
yeah eventually if I live through this crap.
I do agree that when we finally get through it then it CAN make us stronger for the future. and hopefully wiser as well.
maybe even as wise as sirbearbear but I don't know if I'd go that far.