Why do men not realize what is going on in the woman's mind?

Many emotional and marital relationships are hell due to the inability of the two parties to understand the needs of the other and not how his mind and heart work. Most problems are neither arrogant nor arrogant but only a misunderstanding between what the two mentalities are, fortunately our generation has the psychological and scientific materials, courses and training that It would contribute to raising awareness of the relationships and the needs of each other.

Psychologists have named several differences between the mentality of the sexes and there were several names that are the most common or most common between the two partners.

1- Giving solutions instead of emotional sharing: The mind of the man who is balanced and normal is determined to find solutions when he faces a problem, so he rushes to give his wife or partner solutions to his problem at a time when she only wants listening and emotional participation even if she does not find a solution by then.

2 - Expressing feelings: Women consider feelings an integral part of their day and therefore wish to attend the feelings in their day in a continuous manner, while a man places feelings in a specific field that is expressed only at certain times! Where a man considers feelings something equal to food and drink, for example, he certainly cannot eat all day.

A large part of what aggravated this dilemma in our eastern societies is an attempt to refute the feelings of a man and try to depict it for him that the ghoul who will eat it if it is drifted into it, perhaps because we in our Arab society learn the door from which the wind comes to block it and rest instead of learning to control the wind and the door in terms of self-management .

3- The method of love is different: when a man assesses love, his evaluation is: does this woman understand me? You respect me? Do you appreciate my manliness? The man looks at the situation as a whole. On the other side, the woman looks at the details. Did he like my haircut? Did you praise her? Did he tell me that I am the most beautiful in his eyes? Did he call me on the phone at the height of his preoccupations ?, The dilemma in a man's tendency to material achievement and the woman's emotional!

4- Empty box theory: A woman always has her mind in the working position, and she cannot understand that a man has time when he turns off his mind and sits in his empty box, because she cannot do that and she cannot imagine it compared to her mind.

5 - Focus and process rather than bifurcation: a man can think of one subject, giving his time and killing him in search, because his mind assigns to each subject a room, and there is no overlap between the rooms, or the woman, so each subject is implemented on other topics and is not separated from it, and therefore the woman is characterized by her ability to perform Multiple actions simultaneously and her mind is multi-tasking

6- Foresight or future event: A man may not understand why a woman has instructed him to drive on his way back from the Doe road but not the other when he told her that his car broke down in some area, but the woman unconsciously linked that his broken car needs several hours to work Once again and then on his way back, the Doe road will be crowded and you advise him the other way, all this once I tell her that his car has broken down!

7- Emotional sensitivity: Women tend to feel hurt very quickly at the time when a man is exposed to the same situation tends to endure because the time comes from her childhood to receive feelings while endurance is transmitted in the mind of men, especially in the Arab region!

In the majority of the matter, an attempt is not made to reduce the gender gap, but rather an attempt is made to reduce the two parties on both sides as well, and a large part of solving these problems is only by practicing the explicit reactions of the two parties! And a large part can be resolved by giving the two parties a balanced portion of the attributes of the other.

These were the most popular differences that fueled gender conflicts. Do you have differences that aren't listed? What are the points that you liked most?