Say "NO" To It, Ladies. Contributed by @Olawalium
You are a lady and you ran your mouth at every turn
Every time his patience you test and energy you burn
You have different segments to you like a corn
Your own mouth is way mightier than a gun
Anytime you want to push him to the breaking point like a sheep with her horn
You never give him a moment of peace, even every morn’
Everyone knows this and you have accepted it as your norm
Now he got pushed so hard, you turned it on the head and you ran
They always say ladies are powerless, but they are really powerful. Their mouth is equally powerful, willing to bring anyone down; it's impactful like a blow would. Don’t use your soft nature to deceive everyone by being careless with the way you talk. You are a sensitive being, you should always choose your words carefully.
Not only do some ladies use their words, some actually beat a man. It looks strange but it exists. It is not the focus probably because the percentage isn’t as high as the guys, but they exist. Don’t be hard, be gentle. Don’t be careless, be homely, don’t bring war, be his peace. Strive to always be the one he would always run to when the outside world’s reality has run him ragged. Be his encouragement, not the one to tear him down with your mouth and actions. A guy would most of the time lash out when his ego is at risk. Don’t force him to do what he is not expected to do. Don’t test how much he loves you by being so insensitive and exerting yourself.
Ladies oftentimes know the society favours them, so they try to push the man harder and watch how he would react, to see if he would fold. Don’t be like that. You are known to be emotional and a perfect lover, go on and be it. You don’t need to pitch your wits against a guy because you want to live up to being equal to man, as the society made you think. The truth is, you are not equal to a man. In fact, you are above us, in how you handle pains and how your body adjusts to seasonal changes, and with the lot of things you cope and have to deal with. It is a slap in your face to think you are equal because you are not, you are above, naturally.
Be a lady. Be classy and spontaneous. Be an encourager, you are allowed to dream, go get it.
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.
What frustrates a man than a nagging woman, it's natural to women but it is one of those things that can provoke the masculinity of a man.
When women want to talk, they want to give the full details. When men want to listen, they want you to go straight to the point. This is another thing that is capable of causing problems between the too genders. When women are talking, they want you to listen and when their is repetition, the man is bored already... Lol
To get the attention of the man, they start nagging, well this make things get complicated than to solve the problem.
Understand him, he is not a woman, you can't expect him to behave like a woman...
Women are powerful, anyone that says otherwise does not know who women are. Men might have the strength, to the women belong the endurance.
Strength can get things done, but it takes endurance to keep doing it for a long time without breaking down... No wonder you said they are stronger.... Smile
Women of honour have learnt not to measure up with men, they already know that men will fight anything that want to treat his ego.
All women should read this and take pride in the power of their feminism. Women are wonderful, they are not to prove it against men to prove their worth.
Thank you @olawalium and @communitycoin
Absolutely. Thanks as always bro.
I will go with this old saying that ladies engaged in more talking compare to guys, which really make them say something grievous and offensive to man often whenever there is arguments, you can't actually win them, unless you turn it to violence which will result in bully at last, some ladies run their mouth at will and fear not the consequence of their actions which alway land them in trouble often.
Some house wives has turned their home to hell on earth through I dont care attitude and not given their husbands peace of mind as they always turn the peace reign to dusk with one excuse or the other. Always getting on the man nerve and getting him provoked. They will never take to corrections. This is even more common in western world where Women are giving more priority over man, they abuse such privilege and thus take men for fools though not all of them, as we have some angel among them.
Some ladies too, internationally getting on men nerves just to see how they will behave and respond back, we men have to be very careful and be cautious in dealing with ladies at all time.
Woman are said to be helper be like one, don't be the one to destroy your home through unnecessary and stupid attitude that doesn't pay. A good woman hold is home firm and always make her man happy, be a joy to your man always.
Thank you for that
Great women are women who always have a high sense of humility, even though they really look great.
Because he is always aware that the ability dimer it is because God has loved him so perfect, then the shame of God covering it neatly. A true great woman is a woman who never underestimates her neighbors, either to denounce her. Because he knows that the individual is the same as them.
It's just that God's love has been more generous, so from that he did not forget to always soften the disease to always respect each other for the love of God who always menyandingnya. When he sees differences in other women, he in knowledge, social or opinion, he will continue to respect him, because he knows that every human being has created with a different mind. If you know anytime, whenever he will know what he knows, he knows how to expand the framework so as not to forget to always be someone else, a self-controlled self.
Because it will always be easy to do by others, then surely someone else will do something to him, others will appreciate it too. If anyone tickled his mind he would still be good, if only it would make someone else hurt, but he would affirm with subtle language if what he thought would make others better.
He always realized that everyone already has different abilities, making people see others, in or in social. They will try to continue to appreciate it, because women who can no longer underestimate the ability of other women's lives.
And in fact he is very famous in the eyes who see him, that a great woman will never spread with derogatory words like "Not classy."
That's what I know, and so my mother taught to all her daughters.
Having read Say "No" To It, Guys, and Say "No" To It, Ladies,
one thing that is true for everybody, is that no matter what,
it is never okay to hurt another person, especially when
they do not pose a threat to you.
To hurt somebody you love, or claim to love
comes from a place of weakness.
Simple.
Simple and detailed. I love it. Thanks :)
Gbam, you just said it all
Some ladies are too fond of running there mouth any way just like a parrot which actually makes them to misbehave and cause quarrel which is not easily settled. While some woman are like angel on earth.
Women, whether married or single, condone various degrees of abuse for reasons such as no source of income, the fear of losing custody of the children, exposure to information, low self-esteem, stigmatization and many more. More often than not, the woman is prevailed upon to be forgiving regardless of the ordeal she undergoes daily or the scars she has tattooed all over her body. Most heart-wrenching is that fact that sometimes the physical trauma, the psychological torture and the emotional disenchantment transforms a once beautiful and loving woman into a recluse. To this end, many have died and many more are held in severe bondage they cannot easily escape from.
Although women are most often the victim of domestic violence, the gender roles can and are reversed sometimes but that doesn't mean they don't have hands in domestic violence.
They are not being absolved of it, that is why the post is to let them focus on their strength and for them to choose their words carefully. Thanks a lot brother.
Lol
Ladies naturally are just so fond of running their mouth anyway
You're right
The Bible writer James says that the tongue is “an unruly injurious thing” that “is full of death-dealing poison.” (James 3:8) James was aware of this vital truth: An unruly tongue is destructive. Undoubtedly, he was familiar with the Bible proverb that compares thoughtless words to “the stabs of a sword.” In contrast, the same proverb says that “the tongue of the wise ones is a healing.” (Proverbs 12:18) Indeed, words can have a powerful effect. They can hurt, or they can heal. We all (not just the ladies) need to be careful of the words we use on others.
You are so right!
We all need to choose our words carefully. Definitely.
You're not far from the truth
As a woman I felt honored friend, congratulations, is the best post I read you and see that you have buenisimos post.Apartando the fact that poetry is a hard gift to obtain. The woman of today is a person very aware that there are issues around the world that are in her hands to be able to change and, for that, we must fight all together. I love watching a young woman go out and grab the world by the lapels.
Yes, go and grab the world by the lapels. You are powerful.
Exactly dear
The poet says that the creation of some great cirakalyanakara, half-woman, half his narakintu reality there's no match. Men always use women as a slave. Women are neglected everywhere. In a factory, men and women do the same thing, but mujri does not get the same. Here also women are being neglected. But now, some women should understand that the man who daraccheamara in turn, need to give equal rights to women.
Hmmn
Women are neglected everywhere??
yaah.... they always neglected. they were no Opportunity.
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i feel like this equality thing is taking a turn.
and women are taking over.
STAND UP MEN
DON'T LET THEM RISE
IN NATURE THE STRONGEST WINS
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ok but for real YES i think equality is needed.
but this can be done in other ways than just saying that men are pig and women need to get paid more