I think what you've written is very true, @girlbeforemirror, and also what @hlezama brought up in his reply to you - that we're in situations where we are conversing here with others on a global level, which adds to our responsibility to be clear, yet considerate. There's more to take into perspective, and especially the importance of our being aware of what we are saying in our written words and how we are saying them. Our words may be seen differently than we intended.

It's not easy to take everything into consideration, and it's even harder if we are habitually more reactionary with the things we say, rather than first trying to understand the context and how our words could be taken by others.