I am happy that you got out of that chamber of despair. I saw the event and I saw some of the mean, not nice comments. And I wanted to attack the person for attacking you. But I know that would have just caused more backlash, so I got up fro my computer and when to pray. I realize that people who are nasty to others feel bad about themelves. And they want to get rid of their misery by throwing it onto someone. I am learning that when people are mean, it has nothing to do with me but everything to do with them. Just like you said -you could have come back swinging but you chose not to and you chose to deal with it in your own way and find peace with it. And for that you have grown, become wiser. But the person who was mean remain in their meanness and sinking deeper into despair and don't even know it. Thank you so much for sharing Jerry and I am happy you are feeling better.