I believe that voting is not done by some stupid ballot box that contains no good reason it's not totally rigged. It costs a lot of money to win an election. It costs a lot of tax payers' dollars to run a country.

Your dollar is doing the voting and always has. You can decide where it starts. If she(analogous bad girlfriend) has to buy her own meal every time from now on, if you won't pay for her ubers anymore, if she's gotta get a job, she'll move on to someone who will pay or she'll shape up if the whole town is wise to her shit.