My Heart always told me to Keep Away from that Community, for once I obliged. There's just something not right. All in all, I absolutely respect your boldness to voice yourself out, others need to know what they are getting themselves into. I Keep Saying, you don't need to be in a community to do well here, at least not this branced out communities. DTube in itself is community enough, one only needs to find creators they resonate with and build one on one relationships from there.
You should look into @ddaily.. It's more calm, friendly, mature, fun and with respectable leaders..
Sorry about your misfortune though babe. Smile On, Steem On...