Thanks for sharing - I appreciate you will be holding deep anger and emotional trauma just from being around such experiences. Thankfully, I have never been personally involved in such events, but having focused closely into learning how to deeply heal emotional trauma on all levels, I do not know that even the most heartbreaking people and situations can heal given the right understandings. I can recommend some good books that most know nothing about. If you are interested then just let me know.
May we all know real balance. <3