I didn't either. Age and experience make you see it and I'm glad I have. At first you are horrified. Then you realize it's always been this way. The hopefulness we have as humans It's got the 5 stages of grief attached to it. What we think is everyone shares our own values but that's not the case. Then we find out, everyone just pretends to do what's right and show that on the outside and really do what's for $. If that' wasn't the case this HUGE gun issue would have been solved a long time ago. What other possible reason is there to let this continue? Both parties are responsible for it.