A quick checklist for le bon ton online

The online universe is about communication: people meet each other online, argue and discuss. But just because you are apparently interfacing with a gadget doesn't mean that manners should be forgotten. (*)

Here's a quick list of general rules for keeping your bon ton online: 

1. never say anything online that you wouldn't be able to articulate directly to your vis-a-vis;

2. play it safe and treat others with respect;

3. do not use your screen as a shield: always write polite messages and e-mails, avoid sentiments that you would never normally express in your everyday life; 

4. don't be a bully: people online can't fight back, mind your manners;

5. always think about your potential audience: their background, age, gender, political views and try to avoid inappropriate comments and vocabulary;

6. remember, it's not a competition: the number of followers you get doesn't really matter. Think carefully before you accept someone to your friend list; 

7. be conscious when you post photos of others: ask for permission, consider your friends' feelings;

8. remember that the online world can't substitute your real life, so don't annoy the people around you with a like&dislike strategy you usually apply online;

9. there are times when phone calls and letters are more important: don't let social networking take over all other methods of your communication;

10. and finally don't lose yourself: the online universe could easily mislead you into a fantasy world, where you are more attractive and successful than in your real life. Don't fall into this trap. 

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