The art of changing and of continuing being you itself

The title can to you look like confused something, strange ... senseless, maybe, but in proportion to that you continue reading, you will notice how much felt it has.

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How can we change and continue being the same? Esto we it can manage seeking to turn concerning our own axis, to observe the reality from different points of view, estimating the different thing that can return every situation. Having this clear, we will be able to decide how to behave, what to think and what to say according to which it is the moment. We can achieve the change without previous pre-established and strict rules that force us to act always in the same way, feeling it or not.

We are growing with the idea of that "we" "are" somehow since we are born and give certainty of which it is something impossible to transform. In spite of it, as human beings that we are, we have the aptitude to establish changes in our personality; achieving this way a personal transformation and / or to have more bearable relations. Everything is a question of having commitment and dedication with us themselves. The personality is not a static and immobile entity, everything opposite, this there can be molded according to every stimuli day pupil and everything what surrounds us. From the moment in which we are born, we are absorbing habits, experiences and enclosedly traumas that forge our character.

It is not necessary to suffer a serious disorder of personality to go to therapy and to start modifying our attitudes opposite to what it surrounds us. The changes are positive and necessary, we cannot remain stagnant always in the same position. He remembers the phrase that he says " be like the river that flows and does not stagnate " and applies this in your daily life, or perhaps were you the same person 2, 5 or 10 years ago? And we are speaking about height, weight or experiences, neither about skilled studies nor of reached achievements. Surely, which you liked in the youth is not the same thing that pleases you at present or vice versa. Then, why do we stick to thinking that the personality does not mutate either? Any change that you want to do in your character will take a lot of time and effort. It is not anything so simple as "to blow and to do bottles", as he says a very popular saying. It is not also a question of waking up one day in the morning and I list, you are a different person, everything centres on travelling a complex route, full of obstacles that to avoid and situations that were managing to be testing ourselves.

We must consume ourselves of patience, rest on the persons that more we love, to be persevering, and the most important thing of everything is to have absolute confidence in our capacities; of everything what we can achieve. Goals to establish but also to give 1000 % of our effort and dedication to reach successfully each of them. Only this way we will have started travelling a way towards the transcendency and overcoming.

With regard to what it has been my experience with this topic, I can say that in my childhood and pre adolescence very often I liked different things, I practised many sports, was in classes of music, between many other activities. Ultimately I discovered that the sport that more me apasiona is the swimming, but providing that he appears to practise some another sport, I will be opened for any experience...because of it of it treats the life; of having experiences, new persons to know, to listen to new music, to realize activities and to do any other new thing and out of our area of comfort that one presents. Remembering that, we can adapt to any of these situations without losing the essence of our personality, this that us characterizes and is only in each of us ... because it does not import which is the place or situation ....do not change, only you must adapt