Behind the difficulty there must be a victory

In a household building, the guardian has an important strategic role and position, in the hands of a knot of marriage contract which becomes the gate for the household building is tied up. True, without the marriage contract will not take place, if it is still forced to take place, then the marriage contract is not valid, because in the opinion of rajih in this matter, guardian is one of the legitimate requirements of marriage. And before that the guardian is a formator for one of the pillars of the household, namely the bride aka wife. In the guardian's shelter, a girl is forged and educated for sometime in the future-entering the gate of marriage that takes her into a house-building that leads her to happiness and serenity.

Because the guardian is the holder of the knot of the marriage contract in addition to being an educator for the bride, then on the shoulder is a big responsibility that he must bear and the task that is not light that he must bear.

First, shaping her daughter into a woman shalihah

It is as a manifestation of his responsibilities as a household leader in safeguarding the family from the fires of hell as spoken by Allah Subhanahu waTa'ala, "O believers, guard yourselves and your family from the fires of hell ..." (Surat-Tahrim: 6 )

And as the practice of the Prophet sallallaahu 'laihiwasallam, "Every one of you is a leader and everyone will be responsible for what he leads. A man is a leader in his family and he is responsible for what he leads ... "(Narrated by al-Bukhari from Ibn Umar radiyallaahu 'anhu).

By shaping her daughter as a shalihah woman, she has made it easy for her daughter to find a righteous dating as the basic capital for a happy household building, because the good one is affectionate with the good, the righteous to meet the righteous.