Change your way of thinking then Your fate will change soon.

in #esteem6 years ago

A disciple asks his teacher;

"Master why is life always a lot of trouble?"

Teacher: "Not a life of many problems but your mind is troubled ...?"

"You're always prejudiced on anything and anyone, that's the problem"

Student: "But the fact is I always get into trouble in my life"

Teacher: "Yes it is because your mind is in trouble", Every incident in life is neutral your mind that judges it as "problematic" or "beneficial".

Student: "Meaning?"

Teacher: "For example whether the Rain is problematic or profitable".

Student: "It's a problem for me, because if I ride a motorcycle and forget to bring a rain jacket would be drenched"

Teacher: "Then if it's raining for Baso and Umbrella workers, is that a problem?"

Student: "Of course not", for them even profitable.

Teacher: "the problem is the rain or the person ...?

Always remember

When we are always prejudiced both / Husnudzon then the good things we will meet in the whole time of our lives.

and when we always prejudice / Suudzon then bad things that we will always meet every day.

So do not complain if we include people who always experience negative and unpleasant experiences throughout our lives.

Because we and our own minds are the cause.

It may be that when you read this article God is trying to help you to improve your way of thinking, so that your life is not always troubled by problems.

So let's change our way of thinking right now so we no longer encounter negative and unpleasant experiences.

Well now let's check our own way of thinking reflected from our daily comments:

  1. Seeing his coworkers ascend
    Positive person: I will learn from him.
    Negative person: He must be a bgt looking for a face

  2. Seeing people go Hajj
    Positive person: Oh God may someday I can be like him
    Negative person: Hajinya most just for show-show off.

  3. Read the status in FB
    Positive Person: thanks for the sharing permission yes
    Negative person: ah infonya stale I've never read anyway

  4. Read the status of humor in fb
    Positive person: thanks for making me smile this morning
    Negative person: Crisp! not funny !

  5. Down the Rain
    Positive People: Alhamdullilah the air so cool
    Negative Person: Ah if it fits again need to light even rain, Damn !!

  6. Can Salary
    Positive person: Alhamdullilah can make pay-requirement
    Negative People: Payday is also not enough for pay needs

  7. Have a husband
    Positive Person: Alhamdullilah although his salary is not big but my husband is kind and caring.
    Negative people: It's useless to have a good husband, if not enough to household needs.

  8. See people in Simple dress
    Positive person: duh he's a very humble man even though officials.
    Negative: Officer High but his appearance is so plebeian.

  9. Have a Motorcycle
    Negative Person: This is neh kalo naek motor, kalo pas ujan wet drenched like kakak people who have a car.

Positive People: Alhamdullilah have a motor, it's easy to ride the motor if it's hot and not fit rain rainy if it does not overheat.

Think positive that we live without problems.

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