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In the history of marriage we see the most righteous people of Muhammad sallallaahu 'laihi wasallam, the companions are the women shalihah, we see his daughters who shalihah mate with the husbands of shalih also, his companions who are sincere married women commensurate and level with them and so on. So if you desire to get a righteous partner, shift yourself so that your desire is realized so that you do not brave the smoke, just as the back misses the moon