I Don't Care How Much Money You Have!

in #esteem6 years ago (edited)

I have in the past made important decisions about people I work with, agents and producers - big decisions based largely on how they treat the wait staff in the restaurant we're having the meeting in. I don't care if you're the most powerful cat in the room, I will judge you on how you treat the least powerful. - Tim Minchin

Have you ever noticed that as people start to earn more money they often become more disrespectful towards those with less financial power?

I did.

And I vigorously condemn such behavior.

A close friend of mine became a real a****** as his bank account began to grow considerably.

I remember we met at a café a couple of years back and he ordered latte macchiato for the two of us. When the waiter came back to serve the drinks, my friend looked at him and said in the most depreciatory way possible:

As time goes by the size of your glasses is getting smaller, huh? Unbelievable.

He shook his head, sippet at the (regular sized!) latte and grinned at me.

I felt so embarrassed.

It was shocking to see how that person had changed since he became one of those star consultants that earn way too much money.

That was the last time we met.

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We're all Earthlings in the end.

I don't care how much money you do have in your crypto wallet, but I do care about how you're able to handle it.

The only thing that matters to me is how you treat people.

As an entrepreneur I'm in the lucky position to freely choose who I do business with, and I go with Tim Minchin here: I'd never work with anybody who doesn't respect the basic rules of humanness.

I can guarantee you that if you're dishonest, disrespectful or disloyal, you will neither become my business partner nor my friend.

On the other hand, if you're honest, respectful, loyal and demonstrate a sense of empathy, chances are high that you'll call my attention right from the start.

If you even hold the door open for someone else, say thank you when someone else does for you, or let someone through first at the supermarket checkout because they're about to purchase only one or two items while your shopping cart is brimmed, then you'll definitely amaze me!

Is that a fair deal? 🙃

When it comes to protecting human values that are threatened with extinction, I can be quite relentless.

Sorry for being so honest with you...

Have a nice day and remember: We're all Earthlings in the end.

Much love,
Marley -

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"I don't care how much money you do have in your crypto wallet, but I do care about how you're able to handle it." Very nicely put.

Thanks a lot @apshamilton, I'm glad you like it :-)

Hi,
you're definitely right.
For the character of some people money is the biggest enemy.
I know many very wealthy people, only very few of them are happy.
We should be glad to know :
Money can't buy everything!
We should choose our friends carefully, that's why I haven't so much 🤣😅😁
Have a wonderful day
Tom

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So nice you stopped by, Tom!
Money can't fill that big hole inside yourself, and that's why so many wealthy people start to become addicted to drugs and alcohol.

I don't have many friends either for the very same reason :-)

Have a fantastic day, too!!

The simple gestures of kindness make far more impact that the grandiose ones.

Definitely! Thanks for the valuable adding, @gikitiki :-)

The only thing that matters to me is how you treat people.

It really matters, I mean how we treat others.

Thanks @surfermarly, you’ve been good to me.

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Likewise, Max. I think it's the only way :-)

I have to agree, respect is needed so much more these days.

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Let's preach it!

I feel ya @surfermarly

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Hello @surfermarly, it's unfortunate but many people in the world have been losing the sense of humanity and accepting each other respecting our differences, the world would be more harmonious and wonderful if we all learn to have a little more civilization. The fact of having money or some position of power does not make better person to another, being a respectful person and with principles is what makes us better human beings, thank you for so important words. Happiness always

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I love your comment and would sign every word you said here. Thank you @marinmex!! :-)

Wish human values will not be extinct.
It is all we've got, suppose to be.

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YES. It is everything we have and everything that actually matters. Thank you :-)

My work habitat is the banking and insurance industry... Sadly I have to say, that "humannes" decreases the higher or fancier the title of someone is in this sector. Luckily, my main contacts are on the lower echelons and have still held their integrity...

I am with you completely on this one, I only respect the ones that respect me... No matter how fancy their business card spells...

Thanks for the insight, @pele23!

Oh job titles... I learned that when it has a "Vice" in front of it, people start to really go crazy.

For over 10 years I have been wondering what exactly "Key Account Manager" means, because I have met some that truly believe that the Tropic of Capricorn or even the Equator runs through their ass!

Hahaha - So it's the key to paradies after all? :-D

Lol, some say so... Who knows? :-)

Its the other way around: A top level basketballer will not become tall from playing basketball. People with certain character traits get more money because they have a "modified" moral. Some people here are upvoting their own shit, and self vote more than voting others.

Those are the people running away when there is an accident or people leaving their country when it is attacked, instead of helping.

That's a very interesting thought, and I guess you're completely right about it.

Yet, luckily there are still people with influence who have kept their integrity and didn't sell their grandmothers in order to come to the top.

I'll always be sticking with the good examples :-)