Long story
The amount of husband's right to wife
The husband's right to wife is great, his position before him is great, it is clearly illustrated by:
A. The Prophet's command shallallohu 'alaihi wasallam to the wife to prostrate to the husband if the creature may bow down to the creature.
From Abu Hurayrah of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam said, "If I ordered someone to prostrate to someone else I would have ordered the wife to prostrate to her husband