Marriage by Pouring Scented Water On Heads

in #esteemapp7 years ago (edited)

ဦးထိပ္​၌ ​ေရစက္​သြန္​းခ် ထိမ္​းျမားလက္​ထပ္​ျခင္​း
Marriage has been recognized by pouring scented water on heads of the bride and the groom.
မိန္​းက​ေလးႏွင္​့ ​ေယာက်္​ား​ေလး၏ ဦး​ေခါင္​း​ေပၚသို႔ သန္​႔စင္​​ေသာ ​ေရၾကည္​ ​ေရစက္​မ်ားကို အ​ေမႊးနံ႔သာ​ေရတို႔အား သြန္​းခ်​ေပးျခင္​းျဖင္​့လည္​း ထိမ္​းျမား​ေပး၏။
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There is a wide variety of ways to marry, but the essense is to be recognized them as husband and wife by the friends and the relatives. When they have been widely recognized, they become husband and wife in a society. At present, the receptions for wedding have been held extravagantly in the cities.
ထိမ္​းျမားမႈ အမ်ိဳးမ်ိဳး႐ွိ​ေသာ္​လည္​း အဓိကလိုအပ္​ခ်က္​မွာ ပတ္​ဝန္​းက်င္​မွ လက္​ခံအသိအမွတ္​ျပဳရန္​ ျဖစ္​ပါသည္​။ ထိုသို႔ မိတ္​​ေဆြသဂၤဟတို႔က အသိအမွတ္​ျပဳပါက လင္​မယားအရာ​ေျမာက္​၏။ ယခုအခါ ​ေငြ​ေၾကးတတ္​ႏိုင္​ပါက တတ္​ႏိုင္​သ​ေလာက္​ မဂၤလာအခမ္​းအနားကို ၿမိဳ႕ႀကီးမ်ားတြင္​ အက်ယ္​ခ်ဲ့ ျပဳလုပ္​ၾက၏။
To be a complete marriage ceremony, the bride and the groom have to do such activities as paying obeisance to the members of Sangha. Besides, they have to present offertories to the family Nat.
မဂၤလာအခမ္​းအနားမ်ားတြင္​ မဂၤလာသတို႔သားႏွင္​့ သတို ့သမီးတို႔ ဘုရားအားကန္​​ေတာ့ျခင္​း၊ လူႀကီးမိဘမ်ားအား ကန္​​ေတာ့ျခင္​း၊ ရဟန္​းသံဃာမ်ားအား မဂၤလာဆြမ္​း ပင္​့ဖိတ္​​ေကြၽးျခင္​း စသည္​တို႔ မလြဲမ​ေသြ ျပဳလုပ္​ရန္​လိုၾက၏။ ထို႔အျပင္​ ႏွစ္​ဘက္​မိဘမ်ားကလည္​း ကိုးကြယ္​သည္​့ နတ္​မ်ားကိုလည္​း ပသပူ​ေဇာ္​ၾကသည္​။
In a Myanmar marriage, having sex does not play a crucial role. Only the recognition of the social circle is the prime factor. U Nyunt Hline and Daw Khin Mya Mar got married in Myanmar. After marrying before a social mass, Daw Khin Mya Mar went and lived with her relatives. U Nyunt Hline filed a suit against his wife to be able to live husband and wife. His wife Daw Khin Mya Mar defended that though they got married, they had no sexual relation as husband and wife.
ျမန္​မာတို႔၏ ထိမ္​းျမားမဂၤလာျပဳမႈတြင္​ အမ်ိဳးသားႏွင္​့ အမ်ိဳးသမီးတို႔ ​ေပါင္​းသင္​းစပ္​ယွက္​မႈသည္​ အဓ္ိကမဟုတ္​ အ​ေရးႀကီးသည္​မွာ ပတ္​ဝန္​းက်င္​မွ အသိအမွတ္​ျပဳရန္​ျဖစ္​၏။ ျမန္​မာႏိုင္​ငံတြင္​ ဦးၫႊန္​လိႈင္​ဆိုသူ အမ်ိဳးသားႏွင္​့ ​ေဒၚခင္​ျမမာဆို​ေသာ အမ်ိဳးသမီးတို႔သည္​ ထိမ္​းျမားလက္​ထပ္​ခဲ့ၾကသည္​။ ထိုသို႔ အမ်ားသူငါက အသိအမွတ္​ျပဳပါက လက္​ထပ္​ၿပီး​ေနာက္​ ​ေဒၚခင္​ျမမာသည္​ ​ေဆြမ်ိဳးမ်ားထံသြား​ေနရာမွ ျပန္​မလာ​ေတာ့သျဖင္​့ ဦးၫႊန္​႔လိႈင္​က လင္​မယား​ေပါင္​းသင္​း​ေနထုိင္​​ေရးအတြက္​ တရားစြဲဆိုရာ ​ေဒၚခင္​ျမမာက မိမိႏွင္​့ ဦးၫႊန္​႔လိႈင္​တို႔သည္​ လက္​ထပ္​ခဲ့​ေသာ္​လည္​း အတူတကြ ​ေပါင္​းသင္​းစပ္​ယွက္​မႈ မ႐ွိ​ေသာ​ေၾကာင္​့ လင္​မယားအရာ​မ​ေျမာက္​ဟု ခုခံခဲ့သည္​။
The Myanmar court of justice decided that even though they had no sex, they got married according to the Myanmar customary law, they had already become husband and wife.
သို႔​ေသာ္​လည္​း ျမန္​မာတရား႐ုံးမွ ျမန္​မာဓ​ေလ့ ထုံးတမ္​းဥပ​ေဒအရ ႏွစ္​ဘက္​မိဘ​ေဆြမ်ိဳးတို႔ သ​ေဘာတူ လက္​ထပ္​ထိမ္​းျမားၿပီးပါက ကာမစပ္​ယွက္​မႈမ႐ွိသည္​့တိုင္​ လင္​ႏွင္​့္မယား အရာ​ေျမာက္​သည္​ဟု အဆုံးအျဖတ္​​ေပးၾကသည္​။

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