Bad Impacts of Bullying in Children

ACTION violence both in the form of action or words (ridicule, scorn, and others) are now more often used the term "bullying" can happen anytime and anywhere. Not least in the neighborhood of people are well-educated. Usually, bullying is repeated aggressively with the aim of attacking someone who is weak mostly target.
From the point of view of a psychologist Patria Rahmawaty, the emergence of a person's behavior or the oppressive acts of violence, caused by a wide variety of influences. Among other things, the environmental, social and technological.
"The influence of family environment full of tension, stress and conflict to trigger the behavior of the bully. For teenagers, because of the influence of peers, the rapid advances in technology, especially the incessant internet. Viewed from the television or the media could too. Meanwhile, adults usually occurs due to internal conflicts experienced and impact stress. Workload and emotionally unstable, "he explained.
He says there are three types of bullying, physical, verbal and mental. In Indonesia, in terms of observations, leads mentally. Such a taunt, insult, yell and incite. In terms of verbal, viewed from diverse cultures, said Patria less accustomed to being assertive (ability to express thoughts / ideas in a straightforward and candid).
"If verbal tend to use social media to express his feelings with harsh words," he said.
The impact of bullying for children, adolescents and adults differently. For pressures faced by all three levels are also different. Often we find among adults nearly take the unusual way when facing such pressures. Can lead to suicide or revolt.
"In general, for children and adolescents, the impact appears inferiority, limit the time to hang out, academic achievement and motivation enthusiasm decreased. For adults, shut down and limit themselves well in the association," he said.
So, stop violence to the children from now.