@mayaabb,
I admire your strength to continue even when the world seem against you. It is the love of a mother, and your daughter is lucky to have someone who hasn't given up on her. Mothers can't give up! I don't see how it can happen!.
Reading your post, I can only but share your pain here, and God bless the lawyer in town that has agreed despite all others turning you away .

I feel your pain, I just wished I could raise some of the load off you!!. Keep strong mayaabb, your beautiful girl needs that than ever.